"We have a great evening 'day care' place close to us that we use when we really need a date night and don't have anyone available. It's cheaper than a conventional babysitter and lets the kids play with others their age for a couple of hours. We also try to keep regular playdates up with people. Moms are more likely to take your kids on as a favor if you've given them plenty of free afternoons!" —mommytoahandful