When we hear the words "baby shower," most of us have one of two reactions: an ear-to-ear grin, cooing over the prospect of silver spoons, mini terrycloth bathrobes and itty-bitty baby sneakers, or a gag reflex at the mere thought of crustless sandwiches and stork decor. Either way, the baby shower is an inevitable part of pregnancy -- even Sex and the City's Miranda caved in to having one thrown for her (so long as fried chicken was on the menu).

The trick to throwing a successful baby shower is to know what kind of woman your expecting mom is -- and then to deliver what she wants in unexpected ways. Whether it's for an intimate group of eight gals from work or 50 of the mom-to-be's nearest and dearest friends, a baby shower is like any other fabulous fete. It's a mix of theme, invitations, guests, decor and, oh yes, those games. Whether elaborate or understated, think of throwing a baby shower as an opportunity to flex those hostess muscles and provide wonderful memories for a special friend or relative at possibly the most momentous time in her life.

We chatted up Jennifer Adams, author of Baby Showers, for tips on how you can pull off a baby shower with panache -- and without any unnecessary cheesiness. The answer? It's all in the details, baby.